My teenage teenagers (part 2: FAFO – when it hurts to learn)

“Adapt to the changing needs of the learner & Manage emotional and physical risk”

These are two of our teaching skill fundamentals. As professionals, when we are evaluated for certification and credentialing, we are asked to adapt the learning environment to individual needs while proactively managing physical and emotional risk to enhance student engagement – yeah, it’s a mouthful. And it’s important:

Sliding has inherent risk. 

On any given day, 

  • These parks don’t see much sun early – the snow is generally downright crispy first thing and sets up that way again mid afternoon
  • The flow pace through these parks is fast. UNCOMFORTABLY fast for the average slider with heavy traffic (on Saturdays in particular)
  • There are younger peers my guys know from school – who have years more experience in terrain parks than them – who are throwing rad tricks beyond my guys’ current ability every week. 
  • There are guests who become increasingly impaired from substances as the morning stretches to afternoon. And tons of guests who don’t know the etiquette or culture or have the requisite skills to navigate these parks safely for themselves or others 
  • The features (metal, wood, and hard plastics) are unforgiving when you don’t execute well: especially as you tire and conditions degrade 
  • Sometimes these students’ ability to assess their own skillset is faulty 

I had to constantly assess these risks. I had to adjust constantly AND do so in a way that allowed 3 things:

  1. Continued technical skill acquisition/progress toward short term goals
  2. Ensuring they had a good time 
  3. Doing #1&2 in a way that also continued to build trust between us for long term progression

It was exhausting. 

My prep started FAR ahead of each lesson: checking the weather, determining if there were any competitions going on, and taking the boys’ overall health and abilities into account.

On any given run, dozens of decisions: 

  • Which features should we hit vs session?
  • What’s the best angle to block them from behind as we travel?
  • How many demos versus spotting for them?
  • How is the rest of traffic flow affecting the trail?
  • What do conditions require adjustments for? Speed, approach, difficulty?
  • Are they continuing to improve or tiring/losing performance?

Over time I learned their propensities for stamina and physical risk. I learned my own as well: I skied harder and faster all day with them EVERY day than I ever do recreationally. 

The emotional risks took longer to uncover and mitigate. Teenagers are constantly on the brink: social standing, independence, social media, and peer influence are wildly complex animals to navigate (let alone while juggling the physical side of puberty and throwing in that under mature prefrontal cortex)!

I had to extrapolate and manage the social hierarchy of the friend group, the individual emotional and ego needs of each member, and adapt it for interactions with members of the public at large (because image matters), and even worse: had to adapt it for the interactions with peers of higher ability level (who were sometimes younger in age).

I had to manage my own too: rationalizing through impostor syndrome whilst also swallowing my fears/anxieties of the features and tricks. I am not a nubile park rat….I have a mortgage and a favorite stovetop burner!

Choosing activities that built trust while navigating this landscape, was a never-ending challenge. Some days I didn’t get it right. One afternoon, while hitting jumps, one of the Hs kept starting his spin too early (or one could argue without enough initial separation of upper and lower body). I didn’t step in early enough to correct and on one jump, the early spin engaged his ski while it still had too much contact with the snow. This caused the ski/snow to redirect his body from a straight-ish trajectory to one that hooked aggressively right – right off the trail and into the woods – while still spinning in the air!

Unsuccessful performance contributor: “Fail to modify tasks for individual physical capabilities”

Seeing him disappear from view towards a tree is a moment that will stay with me a very long time. 

Thankfully, he missed the tree.

His laughter from down the embankment allowed me to start breathing again. Mistakes in this realm can have literal life and death implications. This lesson was not for the faint of heart. 

Over time, more of my thought process for these decisions occurred out loud to help provide examples of problem-solving and risk analysis in real time to encourage mimetic learning and critical thinking. 

Eventually, I started putting the onus on them: asking them to identify and name the risks…and to mitigate them with a plan. Over time, they started offering without prompting: way, way cool. 

Given the nature of their goals, and the environment necessary to work towards them – this teaching fundamental was arguably the most challenging.

My teenage teachers (part 1: if not octopus, why octopus like?)

Carinthia is a premier destination (and training ground) for freestyle lovers and athletes. This collection of terrain parks (you’ll hear me abbreviate as “parks”) is not only geographically distinct from Mt Snow proper, but also a culture and animal unto itself. This animal was the impetus for the most challenging (and rewarding) ski teaching lesson of my career to date. 

3 tw/een boy friends wanted to get better at park and ungroomed sliding. Their parents bought them a 10 week series of private lessons on Saturdays through my current home mountain: Mount Snow. 

When the lesson request came in, it caused a bit of an issue in staffing. This required:

  1. The instructor needed to be available for 10 Saturdays in a row without prior commitment to other clients 
  2. The instructor needed to be park certified 
  3. The instructor needed to ski
  4. The instructor needed to be willing to take a 10 week series with tw/een boys that would occur largely in the aforementioned “destination park grounds” whilst serious competition teams and athletes trained there simultaneously

Many of our park certified professionals have seasonal development groups out of the Training Center. Many of our professionals have recurring private guests with lessons booked far in advance that conflicts with a schedule request of that kind. Many of our ski professionals want nothing to do with the terrain park.

I checked boxes 1-3 without issues. #4 took some soul searching. I’m not a freestyle expert. I feel like an imposter in the park. I’ve not taught a series this long before.

I felt proud my manager(s) thought I would be a good fit and ultimately I decided to take this lesson as a growth opportunity. I am SO glad I did AND man did I grow!

My intent is to share my reflections from this experience through the lens of PSIA-AASI’s teaching and people fundamentals (hopefully on a weekly basis or so). So if you’re interested, please tag along while I get psyched for the upcoming season!

PRIDE

For weeks I’ve wrestled with this post. I doubted that my experience as a member of the LGBTQIA community was ‘enough’ to have sufficient merit for a PRIDE post (Hello Impostor Syndrome, my old friend!). Doubted that I had anything worth sharing. So for a few weeks instead, I’ve been leaning into Pride month by focusing my hobbies toward the community. 

I attended the Sapphic Sunday Tea dance party at Madame Sherri’s, watched movies with representation (Honey Don’t and Bound), listened to podcasts (Two Bi Guys and Savage Lovecast), and I’ve read (articles, short stories, historical accounts, and am currently reading Transcendent by Laverne Cox). 

I knew as a teen that I found both men and women attractive (and later discovered I find people of all genders attractive). I had no idea that *might* be a clue I could be queer. I’ve only recently learned that it’s relatively common for bi and pansexual people to assume ‘everyone does this’….which made for one memorably awkward conversation with my mom and sister (for the record, neither recalled this conversation with the same cringey vividness I did). 

College and young adulthood ensued and I was able to explore a bit more…but it was always off. I was trying to find my identity coming off the heels of the AIDS crisis and in the era of Wild Things and Matthew Shepard’s murder (both 1998) – a full ten years before Katy Perry’s (problematic) I Kissed a Girl (2008). 

And honestly, what were my chances? 

As kids, we insulted  EVERYTHING and EVERYONE as “gay”. There was no worse thing you could be in rural Pennsylvania (except perhaps a gay POC!). 

No matter what you feel inside that conflicts with those assertions, they’re strongly instilled. I defaulted to compulsory heterosexuality. My forays elsewhere were safe only when they were ‘experimental’ or performative – and man that’s a LOT of cognitive dissonance to just keep shoving down and away for years!*

While I floundered, the community (and its allies) recognized the critical importance of dragging our contentious, often-hate-filled society inch by bloody inch towards a better place and time. 

They worked tirelessly on my behalf at great personal risk: Grassroots organizing, pushing for medical and legal protections, creating and supporting businesses and social support structures, and perhaps most importantly:  EXISTING VISIBLY. Especially during June. 

The catalyst that finally pushed me from impostor to writer this month was someone commenting on the subject of being gay “keep it to yourself”. 

I won’t! Not anymore! 

(Not during June! Not today, the anniversary of the Stonewall Riots)

So here are some of my “ya might be queer and not know it” moments:

  • You describe yourself as a tomboy
  • You watched Wild Things and Cruel Intentions…a lot
  • You think Ryan Reynolds, Margot Robbie, Ruby Rose, and Hunter Schafer are all 🔥 
  • You find yourself drawn to labels like ‘flexible’ 
  • You obsessively watched Pitch Perfect dozens of times (“So, there’s like 10 of us. That means one of us is probably a lesbian.”)
  • You were dumbstruck by the appeal of a female friend eating chocolate – so much so that you blurted it out loudly in a moment of quiet at a party

I share this because representation matters. For some, having a word for the feelings they experience is freeing. For some, having a model makes things less scary or lonely. 

I share this because I  struggled and still do – impostor syndrome I’m coming for ya’! I share because those who shared before me have helped me be safer and more accepted as I am. I share because my experience has been messy – and sometimes my whole existence too. I’m still figuring it out and I’m so thankful to have a few weeks out of the year with a bit of additional kindness and consideration for that.

I’ll wrap this with a quote:

“DESPITE THE FACT THAT I’M A SWIRLING BLACK HOLE OF CHAOS I AM PRETTY FUCKING AWESOME”

– Hank Moody, Californication 

*note – I also recognize the privilege of the straight passing safety I experience.

Making Moves

I am 40-years-old and I’m not sure what I want to be when I grow up. For the last fourteen years, I have worked in residential mortgage: sales, operations, and management (with some dabbling in underwriting). Mortgage is not exactly a childhood dream career. I’ve yet to meet a child whose vision board holds amortization schedules, income calculations, and credit utilization formulas. And yet, it captured my interest for a long time.

Mortgage is a challenging industry. In addition to ensuring you meet all corporate and regulatory practices and laws, you must also meet your clients’ needs. Finances are a stress point for so many people and a home is typically an individual or family’s largest purchase. Layer that with ‘domino deals’ (one sale ensures/is required for the next person’s purchase/sale), home costs and interest rates outpacing many people’s ability to buy, limited inventory, and the ability of the average consumer to comparison shop to the bitter end of a transaction – and it is downright HARD to do a mortgage.

The challenges though have helped make me the calm, capable, problem solver I am today. I believe my value is not in being able to calculate LTV (loan to value) or DTI (debt to income) and instead lies in my ability to quickly assess competing priorities, distill complex problems, recognize and influence the motivations and behaviors of others, and find creative solutions. In the Washington, DC area, so often people equate what they do with who they are. It has never suited me well (although I accept those who connect with that type of identity statement) but deciding to leave mortgage gave me an opportunity to reflect on all of this.

So while I started this musing stating I’m not sure I want to be when I grow up, I have some ideas. I want to be a person who takes on challenges. A person who overcomes nervous excitement to pursue opportunities. A person who makes others feel special, seen, and understood. A person who learns new sports (or instruments or languages or all of the above). A person who takes occasional naps and appreciates beautiful sunsets and vistas. I want to be a person who takes the lessons, skills, and experiences from fourteen years of mortgage into my new job tomorrow morning in a new (to me) industry. A person who excitedly packed western attire and is wearing my cowboy hat on the Amtrak train to DC because her new job has a themed Thursday once a month.

I find writing cathartic. So if you’ve stayed with me so far, thank you for reading. Perhaps something will resonate with you too. If you figure out what you’d like to be when you grow up, I’d love to hear about it!

Kidney donation (part 6 – surgery & beyond)

Wow. I woke up the first time Tuesday 3/23/21 with both kidneys and went to sleep for the night with one.

Here’s my surgery and post surgery updates so far:

Tuesday pre surgery: arrived at the hospital and checked in. Was brought back very quickly and provided my beautiful gown and yellow socks. Had an IV put in and was deemed eligible for a nerve block (this really helps the pain level in recovery). Got pushed the anesthesia and went away. They then spent time positioning my body, installing a 2nd IV while I was asleep, and installing my catheter. They got to work and active surgery time was approx 90 minutes.

Tuesday post surgery: I “woke up” in the recovery room. This was the most pain I experienced. Was here for 3-4 hours and they gave me really great, fast acting pain killers. Around 3:30pm, I was moved to my hospital room. After the nurses did their initial evaluation, my visitor was able to come see me. I was pretty thirsty and started drinking water. Dinner was clear liquids (yay ice pops for dinner).

Wednesday: Catheter removed (this went way better than I was afraid!). Transitioned from the pain button to oral pain meds. Told to get up and start walking! Allowed to eat real foods which I enjoyed immensely.

Thursday: Got the ok to go home! Was taking very little pain medication other than extra strength Tylenol at this point. Also got the ok to visit my recipient!! This was the highlight of my stay. The drive home required a few stops to ensure the risk of clots was reduced and because Pennsylvania’s 78 sucks from a surface perspective.

Saturday: I’m back home. Comfortably watching tv, reading, and scrolling my phone. The only pain killer I need currently is Tylenol. I’m eating normally, drinking lots of fluid, and today I took a (slow) half mile walk to the mailbox and back.

Following Thursday: Had my post op follow up. Everything looks great. Reminded not to do anything strenuous for 6-8 weeks post surgery but encouraged to continue walking as much as desired. My donor is expected to be released tomorrow. I go back to work Monday.

Please consider live donation.

Are there considerations? Of course.

Is everyone a suitable candidate? No.

But my gosh – this process has been absurdly simple and easy from my perspective and experience.

⁃ No major, long term lifestyle adjustments for me.

⁃ Short hospital stint followed by home recovery.

⁃ Donor’s do not use their own insurance for this.

⁃ I’ll be back to work in no time. 2 weeks off total (although some need closer to 4 and strenuous jobs will need 8) and I was covered under short term disability.

The payoff? Life.

I met a former recipient at my follow up appointment. He had received his kidney 12 years ago and he expressed such immense gratitude to me for donating upon meeting me and shared what it had done for his life.

I’ve talked to friends who have either received an organ, donated an organ, or had a loved one receive an organ – there is such need and such an amazing payoff.

While the kidney is the most commonly donated organ, other organs you can make a living donation of include your liver (it regenerates), your pancreas, your lung, or a portion of your intestines.

If an organ is intimidating – I encourage you to do something. Donate blood, platelets, bone, bone marrow, skin, time, or money.

Please consider being an organ donor and ensure your family is aware of your desires.

If you have ANY questions – hit me up. I’m more than happy to answer any of them!

Kidney Donation (part 5 3/22/2021)

18 months ago (several years ago actually for initial screening) I embarked on a journey to determine if I was a suitable candidate to donate my kidney to a loved one. I received much support and love (thank you all) but just before surgery it was determined that donation needed to be put on hold for a while.

Over the last few weeks I’ve undergone updated testing again and we are all systems “go”. We’re scheduled for surgery tomorrow morning (Tuesday the 23rd).

I am fortunate to have an incredibly vast support system of people in my life. To ensure people interested in the outcome can get updates easily, I’ve created a website with the help of the non profit Caring Bridge. Dave Isaacs is not only going to take my ass to the hospital at 5am tomorrow but will also post an update once we’re successfully out of surgery.

Update is expected around 11am or noon so log in then to see it I’m doing well or if it’s time to fight over my valuables!

https://www.caringbridge.org/public/shannonrucker

Kidney Donation (part 4)

At my transplant hospital, there is a pair of adjoining OR rooms blocked out every Tuesday for live kidney transplants. Adjoining rooms is the best option for transplants as it has the lowest amount of time between kidney out and kidney in.

When I arrive they’ll put me to sleep and once I’m under anesthesia, they’ll place compression boots on my feet/legs to minimize the chance of clots, and they’ll give me a catheter. To be perfectly honest – I’m scared of the catheter. I’ve never had one and that is the part of the procedure I am least looking forward to (at least I’ll be unconscious).

Doc will cut me open and they’ll perform the surgery. The technique my surgeon chose is a hand assisted technique (hands remain one of the most advanced tools available). My largest incision will be a vertical cut of 3-4” below my belly button. I will also have a few minor incisions to install instrument ports for the camera and other tools used.

Once my kidney is out, they’ll sew me up, start waking me up, and take me to the recovery room. I’ll need to spend two or three days in the hospital. They’ll remove the catheter while I’m awake. I’m not looking forward to this.

At. All. They’ll make me get up and start walking around the next day. I can go home once I can eat and pee on my own.

They’ve warned me that often this is when the really difficult part begins for donors.

Recipients enter the hospital feeling awful. Their bodies have had nearly poisonous blood circulating for years. They’re generally weak and don’t feel super great. Once they receive a working kidney – they start feeling better immediately (because their blood gets cleaned!).

Conversely: donors are healthy. They enter surgery feeling pretty great. Then they have a major organ cut out. They go from feeling physically good and altruistic to feeling pretty banged up and often the ‘excitement’ disappears.

I’m hopeful my recovery will be smooth. I have a great support network and a LOT to look forward to once I heal. I’m hoping this combination is enough to stave off depression. I know that if I experience it though – it’s normal and my transplant staff will ensure I get the assistance I need.

I’m also REALLY excited that my recipient may start to feel better. I love her very much. I’ve known her my whole life and she wrote a song about me that I still sing on occasion.

I’m also really excited about the ripple effect this may have. A person close to me is now considering live donation. I’ve had several people tell me they are considering platelet donation as a result of my blogs. I’ve also raised a little bit of money for the National Kidney Foundation.

I’m really hoping that this continues. You don’t need to have much to make a big difference and I hope you consider making a meaningful difference in someone’s life.

DO SOMETHING

Today I was uncomfortable.

Do Something

I found myself doing something I’ve never felt compelled to do before: PROTEST.

I protested systemic racism and inequalities.

I protested the unexamined bias and privilege that contributes to and allows it to continue.

I protested the abhorrent and persistent treatment of blacks by racist cops.

Most importantly:I protested the horrific murder of George Floyd at the hands of a fellow American who had sworn to serve and protect his community in Minneapolis.

(My stop by the MLK memorial prior to joining the protest)

The questions and doubt riddled me with uncertainty and several times I nearly bailed before arriving (and once immediately after arriving).

– How do I find them?

– Will I belong there?

– Where do I stand?

– What do I say?

– Do I need a sign?

– Will it be dangerous?

– How long do I stay?


Then as I rounded the corner, I heard them. I felt the strength of their voices shaking and charging the air as it thudded against my chest while they chanted:


“What do we want?” – “Justice!”

“When do we want it?” – “Now!”


I skirted the crowd and initially watched from a few different viewpoints. The protestors were spread on the sidewalk on the north side of Lafayette Park (which was closed Saturday during nighttime protests)*

(A later chant of “George Floyd” as I was leaving)


Men, women, children. Blacks, whites, Hispanics, people of middle eastern, and more. Most wearing masks. Many had signs or shirts for the protest. Many had nothing.

It dawned on me that I was now “viewing” instead of participating in the very protest I had been so moved to join.
Because I was uncomfortable.

I remembered some of George Floyd’s last words:

“Momma, I’m through”

“Please, help”

“I can’t breathe”


I remembered this isn’t about me. I joined the group. I chanted. I clapped. I was angry. I was heart broken. I won’t pretend to know how others feel. I was happy so many people felt the same compulsion I did to DO SOMETHING.


Many people are angry but are getting hung up because they’re unsure what can be done. They’re afraid that things will return to the status quo again tomorrow.They’re afraid that because some protestors vandalized property that the cause isn’t worthwhile anymore? (people who believe this one still confuses me).


I’m here telling you to forget whatever your objections are and DO SOMETHING!

Not sure where to start?Here are 5 things you can do right now:

  1.  Google “How to be a better ally”
  2. Take this quiz from Harvard to determine your unconscious biases https://www.tolerance.org/professional-development/test-yourself-for-hidden-bias (and then work to address and change them!)
  3. Call out problematic language and behavior every time you hear it
  4. Read a book about privilege (Ideally written by a POC – person of color)
  5. If you have black friends (or other marginalized and discriminated against groups): listen to them. Read what they’re posting and sharing. 

I’m not an expert. I don’t have all the answers and I make mistakes all the time. Case in point: me making this protest about myself by initially focusing on my discomfort. And if I screwed something up here – point it out to me so I can be better.


But I’m working to be better every day. I’m working to honor the work done by others in this space. I’m working to change our country to one where parents of black children don’t have to have “the talk”. I’m working to prevent a murder like George Floyd’s from ever occurring again.

I challenge you to DO SOMETHING.

*For those unfamiliar: this is the area you see on tv during many Washington, DC protests with a view of the Whitehouse.

‘Tis the Season – Exam and Cert Season!

As the air gets colder and we start sliding, maybe you’re considering taking an exam or certification.

Maybe you’ve even thought about this before but aren’t sure how to get exam prep “going”.

Here are some tips to help move you from “Interested” to “Preparing” (or from preparing to taking).

(Me after attaining my Alpine Level 2 with one of my mentors)

Let’s be honest, you probably need a plan. While everyone’s plans will be different, there are a few basics you will want to consider: time, materials, physical/mental prep, and miscellaneous.

1.Time

⁃ How big or aggressive is your goal?

⁃ When can you fit in training?

⁃ What portion of training is snow specific and what portions can be done elsewhere?

The bigger the goal, the more time sacrifices you’ll need to make. But don’t worry! These can be as simple as cracking the books while eating lunch, listening to podcasts on your drive to the mountain, or taking 2 extra runs at the end of each day.

2.Materials

⁃ What books or manuals will help with this goal? (Hint: order or borrow them now)

⁃ Will your gear work? If not, can you replace or borrow what’s needed and by when?

⁃ Who can you lean on? It takes a village so start determining who might be a good study buddy, drill buddy, coach, sounding board, etc.

3.Physical and Mental preparation

What needs work? (If you’re not sure, this is a great place to ask your staff trainers and/or attend a prerequisite event to get Ed Staff feedback). It’s usually best to work on 1-2 things at a time.

4.Miscellaneous

Does your exam have a prerequisite? Does it require your Director’s signature to register? Where can you take it and how much money will that cost? When is it offered in relation to your season?

Now you have the basics of a plan. Time to work it! Set a few check-ins for yourself at important times throughout the season and compare your actions to your plan. This allows you to adjust as needed.

(Check out Toby Burrow’s article ‘Game Plan’ in the SnowPro for more planning tips!)

Kidney donation (part 3)

Welcome to the third installment of my weight loss series. That’s right – I’m on a mission to lose about 1lb by getting rid of this extra kidney I have.

Now before you start wondering if I have a 3rd kidney…I don’t. BUT what you may not know is you only need one kidney to lead a normal life. In fact many people are born with only one and never have any idea. It often isn’t determined until an autopsy is done.

Kidneys (like most of our bodies) are very efficient. If we view the average, healthy person as having 100% kidney function, we only actually need about 40% to lead full, active, healthy lives. In fact: kidneys are SO efficient that once I donate one, the remaining kidney will likely grow bigger and gain an additional 10-15% efficacy.

This means that pre-surgery I’ll have 100%, post surgery I’ll have about 50%, and once my remaining kidney adapts, I’ll live the remainder of my life with about 60-65% kidney function.

Some of the considerations for potential donors are the risks, lifestyle changes, and feasibility of the time of work or your normal routine in order to undergo testing, surgery, and recovery.

There are 2 major lifestyle changes a donor is asked to make:

1. Drastically reduce or eliminate the use of NSAIDs (ibuprofen). These are tough for the kidneys to process and they need to be used very sparingly after donating a kidney. Use of Tylenol is still A-OK!

2. Many doctors warn against participation in sports with aggressive physical contact.

With both limitations there are a group of people who may need to disqualify themselves (or their transplant team may) due to these required lifestyle changes.

If you have migraines, bad knees, or another condition that can only be treated with Motrin or ibuprofen, you’re likely not a great candidate.

Baseball, basketball, and soccer are all still ok. My doc gave me the ok to ski and snowboard. If you’re a boxer, MMA fighter, or similar – and unwilling to give it up – you’re likely not a great candidate.

Sports such as football, hockey, and rugby are frowned upon by many doctors. I play rugby. Before my marathon appointment, I researched the incidence of renal trauma in rugby players. When we began discussions on this part of the risks, I told the nephrologist (kidney doctor) that I play rugby. I told him that I had researched the risks and frequency of traumatic renal injury in rugby players and that it was a lower risk and frequency than renal trauma in car accidents. As I could demonstrate that I had done the research to truly understand the risks, he accepted my choice to continue playing after donation but advised I needed to wait until the following year.

This week I received the results of my more comprehensive testing. My donor coordinator called me to discuss them and I’m good to go! Clear chest X-ray (to check for TB), kidneys look great (with no stones!), perfect EKG, etc.

At this time, my donor coordinator will now present the case in its entirety to the transplant panel tomorrow. If the panel determines that moving forward is the right decision, it will come down to a matter of timing.

Timing is determined by the donor and the surgeon. That means if you have a busy season at work, a preferred time of year, or an expensive vacation planned – you can still consider donation. YOUR schedule is the primary consideration.

I’ve let my Donor coordinator and the remainder of the team know that sooner is better for me. This is for a primarily selfish reason: I LOVE snow. I teach skiing and snowboarding and my season typically begins around the second week of December. I’ve been told that I will need a full 8 weeks of recovery before I can consider skiing or riding.

This means ideally I’ll have the surgery (at the latest) by the first or second week of October. The secondary benefit to this is my recipient will have a chance of feeling better soon!

Look for the next installment as surgery day draws close!